tongue in cheek

T & A...thats what men look at. They dont even see your face at first. Why is that? And if you run into a real breast man, he never see's your face!! He dont even care about your face! You know what I like in a guy??? A great personality! I dont care what his butt looks like, I barely even notice it unless hes 2 ax handles across. And I never notice his breasts! Bad breath I would notice...BO would send me running....oily hair, yuck, lets not even go there. But I do think women look for different things in men than men look for in a woman. One tell tale sign about men is if you see how they treat their Mothers, because most men who are close with their Mothers are nice men. Of course some of them can be too close with her, then you have a crybaby running to his Mother about every little problem. You have to look for one who is kinda in the middle.

I have found in my many experiences in life ;)) that most men like a woman who can keep up her end of the conversation ( in case he cant) and they like someone who has a great sense of humor. They dont like women who spend a lot of money, especially if its their money. (Thats why women should always have their own money.) They dont like a woman who talks too much and they dont like a woman who doesnt talk enough. Again, you have to find that middle ground.

But if you have a big set of ta ta's, they will overlook almost anything. And I find those kind of men very shallow. But havent you seen the man with the dumb looking girlfriend who has breast implants the size of a small watermelon ? She doesnt look like shes smart enough to come in out of the rain, but..hey! she has hooters!

I have an older male friend who is divorced, hes the same age as me. He is always telling me how young the women are that he dates. I laugh at him and tell him " either shes looking for a Father figure or a home".

I was married for 20 some years so dating was pretty scary to me at first. I had a date with one of my old teachers younger brother. He took me to a nice bar and we had a couple of drinks. We are just talking, and he looks at me and says ' have you ever been tied up?'...as I removed his hand from my leg, I said "'no', do you have to tie them to get them to stay?". When he ask me that question I knew he and I would never have another date. Now I am sure a lot of women would have been fine with that question, but I barely knew this man, certainly not well enough for him to have his hand on my leg.

I dont think you can look for the perfect mate, I think if you are real lucky it's something that just happens. And if it does happen to you...you are very blessed. You know that saying ' You kiss a lot of frogs before you find a Prince?' I think its true. And to that I say....RIVET..Im done looking.