tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23827807.post117269852822467430..comments2023-11-03T08:31:44.168-04:00Comments on A Penny for your Thoughts: Catchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05693116257747111018noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23827807.post-1172973725676947962007-03-03T21:02:00.000-05:002007-03-03T21:02:00.000-05:00this is so reminiscent of my past with husband num...this is so reminiscent of my past with husband number two....he also was a drinker, and would get a head start right from work. He often didn't bother to come home Friday night, I wouldn't see him until late Sunday. he never knew where he went or with whom. He just followed the crowd. Needless to say, I also never knew who he was sleeping with. When I ended that relationship, he was shocked. Go figure? I guess he thought I liked being a door mat. near the end of our relationship, I also just made my own plans and didn't include him (like he had done to me for so many years), and he didn't like it one little bit. I guess they live by the double standard and don't see life any other way.Neomahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07483213915316279993noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23827807.post-1172802539984802072007-03-01T21:29:00.000-05:002007-03-01T21:29:00.000-05:00Another hot new look!;-)Even though I do not come ...Another hot new look!;-)<BR/><BR/>Even though I do not come by as often as I used to, I think of you everyday! I swear!<BR/><BR/>I love when people can not take what they dish out! What goes around comes back and smaks you! LOL!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23827807.post-1172797417804011792007-03-01T20:03:00.000-05:002007-03-01T20:03:00.000-05:00You rock on girl! You finally realized that life w...You rock on girl! You finally realized that life was too short to not celebrate with your friends *hugs*Barehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15807138448869384996noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23827807.post-1172786895090130712007-03-01T17:08:00.000-05:002007-03-01T17:08:00.000-05:00I can't believe he didn't talk to you for two whol...I can't believe he didn't talk to you for two whole weeks just because you decided to go out without him! I can see why you're no longer married :)Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02441176684416139172noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23827807.post-1172782228711239072007-03-01T15:50:00.000-05:002007-03-01T15:50:00.000-05:00It is really sad that the alcohol had to take over...It is really sad that the alcohol had to take over his life. It sounds like you truly loved this man at one time. But you have learned to move on and do what is best for you. You are SUCH a strong person.Gingers Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13847703944151722742noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23827807.post-1172771642426498082007-03-01T12:54:00.000-05:002007-03-01T12:54:00.000-05:00So sad to read in the comments that he is on a bin...So sad to read in the comments that he is on a binge since Christmas...<BR/>Even though you are free, I do not think you ever are... as you have kids together...<BR/>And you will always be there to support your children... Even if it is hearing of his binges and how they are coping with it...Pendullumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11833881250780345533noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23827807.post-1172767387782751632007-03-01T11:43:00.000-05:002007-03-01T11:43:00.000-05:00I'm with Rel, I couldn't have said it any better. ...I'm with Rel, I couldn't have said it any better. Alcohol has ruined so many lives.<BR/><BR/>There's this country song about this man who divorced his wife after so many years of marriage, and what's so great about it was she let herself GO and had a blast without him.<BR/>Good for you Catch! I wouldn't have felt guilty either!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23827807.post-1172757586568146092007-03-01T08:59:00.000-05:002007-03-01T08:59:00.000-05:00Catch,Alcohol has ruined many lives.relCatch,<BR/>Alcohol has ruined many lives.<BR/>relrelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09030572981830789370noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23827807.post-1172756444647385542007-03-01T08:40:00.000-05:002007-03-01T08:40:00.000-05:00Sounds like did the right thing Catch. And had ple...Sounds like did the right thing Catch. And had plenty of fun to boot!Danhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09763751210167358084noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23827807.post-1172753855712399522007-03-01T07:57:00.000-05:002007-03-01T07:57:00.000-05:00we are friends now, but it took many years for us ...<B> we are friends now, but it took many years for us to become friends, it didnt happen overnight. I think when he had a stroke and I agreed for him to come here and recuperate it may have made him a little more " gracious"...he is welcome here as long as he is not drinking. I am sorry to say after spending the Christmas holidays with his family (us), he went on a binge and has been on it ever since. Very sad. I am just happy I dont have to deal with it anymore. </B>Catchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05693116257747111018noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23827807.post-1172748391320918332007-03-01T06:26:00.000-05:002007-03-01T06:26:00.000-05:00hey catchit's YOUR party, I bet he is crying now....hey catch<BR/>it's YOUR party, I bet he is crying now. I have seen booze destroy many good people. I admire that you have a friendship with him. You are one of the kindest and caring women I know. <BR/>I wonder if the SIL agrees(throws head back and spews evil cackle)!eZhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08291230312060663862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23827807.post-1172736878451068852007-03-01T03:14:00.000-05:002007-03-01T03:14:00.000-05:00Great job catch you really put him in his placeGreat job catch you really put him in his placeTina Drayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11671384087965118788noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23827807.post-1172732418229440802007-03-01T02:00:00.000-05:002007-03-01T02:00:00.000-05:00I think that is called the "double standard".I think that is called the "double standard".Garyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11104981732733112853noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23827807.post-1172718668725120652007-02-28T22:11:00.000-05:002007-02-28T22:11:00.000-05:00Good for you! That's a man for ya anyway. Reading...Good for you! That's a man for ya anyway. Reading thisI rememberd when you said he told you he still loved you. I guess the guilt was coming back to him. <BR/><BR/>Too late now. ha!Gunngirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17651095260383123801noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23827807.post-1172717069309699612007-02-28T21:44:00.000-05:002007-02-28T21:44:00.000-05:00YEA.FOR.YOU. Nice......YEA.FOR.YOU. Nice......Tughttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03603072260312513790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23827807.post-1172716478724615372007-02-28T21:34:00.000-05:002007-02-28T21:34:00.000-05:00YOU GO GIRLyou had every right to do that! it was ...YOU GO GIRL<BR/><BR/>you had every right to do that! it was about time he got a taste of his own medicine<BR/><BR/>Im proud of youBluepaintredhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09049030161558766505noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23827807.post-1172710503941212532007-02-28T19:55:00.000-05:002007-02-28T19:55:00.000-05:00i agree with what dr. John saids. the amazing thin...i agree with what dr. John saids. the amazing thing is how we can still care about our ex's and try the friendship road. not only for the kids but for ourselves....<BR/><BR/>in another train of thought..how i wish you could help me to kick butt so that i too can come out that strong and brave and not let anyone, anyone ever hurt me again..<BR/><BR/>you should start a teaching blog for the needy. i sign up first. ;pLouisianahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08900993153579044870noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23827807.post-1172709920766138632007-02-28T19:45:00.000-05:002007-02-28T19:45:00.000-05:00After all of that the amazing thing is your still ...After all of that the amazing thing is your still friends.Dr.Johnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02752941912945095736noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23827807.post-1172707905125964892007-02-28T19:11:00.000-05:002007-02-28T19:11:00.000-05:00I hear ya!I keep score too! *LOL*I hear ya!<BR/><BR/>I keep score too! *LOL*Big Pissyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11024226667518288383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23827807.post-1172702226731289542007-02-28T17:37:00.000-05:002007-02-28T17:37:00.000-05:00Good For you!Good For you!Pixiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00868867019548504606noreply@blogger.com